Body language in dating

Body Language is Important!

With this language you will not need any words. Women are the culprits that mastered this art hundreds and hundreds of years ago, and with it they have always attracted the man they wanted. If you are fluent in body language you can be sure that you will attract that specific man. You can choose to send the right signal to the right man or tell the wrong man to get lost by just using your body.

Find the Prize

If you can establish eye contact with your prey, you are winning already. Sidelong glances should be perfect to start with. Then, direct eye contact. Once your prey’s gaze meets yours, look away and smile at your little achievement. Let him see your smile. You will send a message that he has caught you watching him and you are now embarrassed for ‘making that mistake’. Now, the big step is to suck in a deep breath and hold his stare. Only this time give a small smile with a little open lip.

If a man is staring at you and you want him to ‘get lost’, turn away from him and make sure that you do not look at him ever again. If you are sitting in a conversation, throw your eyes around. This shows that you are not really interested.

That First Impression is Important

Let’s say you leave your house in the morning and standing on the opposite side of the road is your gorgeous neighbor. He glances at you once and not again. Is the reason for this maybe because you are not dressed properly? Entering any room, heads will turn and people will want to see the person walking in. This is your only chance to make your first impression. If you look your best you will feel great. Make sure when you leave the house, you look great, because you might just attract that gorgeous neighbor.

A Hand Job (Not That!)

Your hands can send very powerful signals to the opposite sex, without direct contact. There are several ways you can use to get to know that someone. If your hands are unclenched you are showing the man that you are open. If you use your hands touching and caressing objects, including your hair, your blouse, your drinking glass shows sensuality. You could have braver hands by accidentally touching him or picking some fluff off his shirt.

If your hands are busy (fidgeting) or balled up in tight fists, these are all bad signals. Tapping, drumming, wagging and pointing fingers are all bad signs.

Make Sure You Stand Out

Your posture is the most important signal you transmit to any man. If your posture is open, it means that you are an open person. If you turn your body toward the person you are talking to, without lifting your feet shows that you are interested. Titling your head, uncrossing and crossing your legs, as well as pushing your chest out will pass a message of interest.